Lounges/Bars vs. Clubs (Pt. 2)

This is my last post until mid-July. I know many of you wanted to hear this one so here it is. The former disclaimer still applies (as in I’m not a Guru and this is just from my experience). It may be a little shorter, but this is everything (or almost everything) that I think is relevant.
Lounges and bars are the best places in my mind to game. As I have told you, in clubs the intention of women is to dance, drink, and/or fight. In a bar, a woman’s intentions are to drink, be seen, and/or mingle.

THIS MEANS THAT SHE PLANNED TO TALK TO YOU THAT NIGHT!!!

Due to the fact that talking to others is on the agenda, if you come correct you have the best chance with her. Also, in this atmosphere most women will at least be cordial. It would be impolite to not at least acknowledge you and hear what you have to say. Here, you could also use a lot more of traditional pua material. Just as a warning, still refrain from anything too “out there”. The “Do you believe in spirits?” stuff is a no no. The traditional “break up through text message” opener will actually do well.


Pros to the Lounges/Bars are:

1. You can actually use traditional pua material.

2. The women have more patience (give you more time to run your routines).

3. The women usually have more education and better jobs.


Cons to the Lounges/Bars are:

1. More quality competition.

The men here usually have more education and better jobs also.

2. More entry restrictions.

There are a lot of “no gym shoes” dress codes and the like. If you like to dress a little hood, you’re either going to have to change up, pay the bouncer a lot, or avoid them all together. Furthermore, the “Grown ‘N Sexy Affairs” might actually require you to be grown. The 25 and older requirements will keep you young players out.

3. More flakes.

The women here feel a very strong pressure to be polite. Because of this, a lot of the women here will have so-called boyfriends. You might get a few fake numbers or have familiar conversations with her voicemail. That just means that your game needs a little work. Practice makes perfect :)


Sidebar:

If she dances (grinding up close) with you here, at any point, there is some level of attraction. It’s not uncommon, but this isn’t something that she’s come there to do. To some extent she thought more of you to do so.

I apologize if I don’t give you guys an actual routine or order of interaction this time. As I’ve said, though, you can use traditional stuff here. Furthermore, I have a couple posts with my old material in them (I’m a little lazy).

Here’s a couple of other things to remember in these places before I go. The music should be lower so don’t peck…at all. When opening a set, address the whole group first. Because you can speak at a level that everyone can hear you, let everyone hear you. After her girls perceive you as “just a social guy”, you’ll be able to game the lady you’re interested in easier.

That’s all I can think of…right now. Catch you guys mid-July.


Play The Game Fair.


Chris.