I got an email regarding some last minute resistance that a reader was catching. I thought the response might help others. So here the email (in entirety) goes...
LMR, LMR, LMR. We all hate it honestly. Analyzing the issue you're having is really hard because you never really know what she needs. In essence though, thats always the problem. The woman hasn't had all her needs met that she requires to sleep with you.
The biggest issues that people usually run across are, "I need to know more about you", "I don't want you to leave", and "I don't want you to think I'm a hoe". Fortunately, Sinn, Mystery, and Captain Jack have answered these for us. In a selling situation you want to answer any objections before they come up. Do that with these situations as well. Sinn believes you should tell them how many brothers and sisters you have, what you do for work, etc. so she feels like she knows you better. Mystery usually has comfort stories prepared that lets the woman know that its not all just sexual with her (and because of that, you're likely to stay around). Captain Jack strongly believes that you keep a very strong "non-judgemental" frame and tell stories displaying your ability to keep secrets so that she can be her sexual self with you without consequences.
You can get know her, know her better, and be a friend while having sex with her. Husbands and wives are usually each other's best friend and partner. And you can't have a cut buddy without the buddy ;)
Now me personally, I like to run through the whole process rather quickly. If it doesn't happen by 3rd date, I distance myself (DONT cut them off). Let them know what they're missing. Also, don't be afraid to let things go.
Pick up is all about letting things happen smoothly. If they're not...and you're catching LMR, odds are you messed up somewhere early on. I hope this answered your question. I honestly don't deal with LMR that much.
Play The Game Fair.
Chris
P.S. I'm going to make this a post. Thanks.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Crazy Night (WR 8)
There will probably be a few tangents in this post. I apologize beforehand.
Sidebar:
I’m NOT balling, I’m an average dude just making like you all. I noticed that I mentioned my leaving the country for a month, my boy getting promoted, and this story partially dealing with another friend of mine returning from Morocco. I just needed to clear that up.
So…
My friend just got back from Morocco. Granted, he had taken a couple stops to France and Spain respectively…that’s his thing. So now we’re out getting his first beers back in the states. Gamed only when I was opened by women. Honestly, me and this guy had a lot to catch up on.
Met the manager of the venue. We talked for a minute. I’m trying to throw a pretty good party before I move in a couple months. Saw a girl and her friend that I had met out early on in the experiment. Before I thought that she was interested in my friend, so I fell back (won’t assume again). We exchanged the usual info and she told me that she’ll make sure to get up with me.
Cool.
Sometimes it’s better to go out by yourself when you’re trying to practice, but I’ve noticed something. If you have a couple of good dudes with you, you can make it work. “Fam, you point a female and I have to approach her. Then I’ll point one out, and you have to do the same thing.” It’ll work if you have some social dudes in your circle.
Fun. Fun. Fun. If you’re over-thinking in the field, stop. That’s not the time. Practice and have fun. That’s it. I’m guilty of it sometimes too. There was a guy at the club with NO game. Kind of chubby, plain clothes (nothing that stood out), and couldn’t dance to save his life ;) Was having a great time though. Tall dude was there as well. Ed Hardy everything on, new shoes, no smile on his face, and stayed posted on the wall almost the whole night. Who pulled more? Who had better results? Exactly. If you’re not having a good time, you’re doing something wrong.
One more thing before I leave you guys though.
It’s getting to be a little after 1am. I’m having a good time. I think that I’m still carrying the social proof from the 2 females from earlier and the manager. One of the tease-types (about a 7, 6.5) we talked about in a previous post starts eyeing me.
She comes over and starts grinding on me…heavy. Whispering in the ear, a kiss on the neck, I don’t usually allow all this to go on (without acting like I have some standards), but what the hell. Now we’re kissing by the wall on the dance floor.
No names have been exchanged yet. Her hand grazes the penis. I put my hand on her thigh. I look at her mouth and she’s got a tongue ring. She’s playing with it while looking me in the eyes. Yeah…she’s going home tonight and he’s going to show me if she really knows how to use that ;)
Her head goes down. I think she’s trying to see what she’s getting later. “You good?” “Yeah, I’m fine.” Five minutes later. “You sure you straight?” She throws up next to me. Some gets on my jeans.
Needless to say, that was the end of my night. I headed straight to the exit.
If it seems too good…it probably is.
Play The Game Fair.
Chris
Sidebar:
I’m NOT balling, I’m an average dude just making like you all. I noticed that I mentioned my leaving the country for a month, my boy getting promoted, and this story partially dealing with another friend of mine returning from Morocco. I just needed to clear that up.
So…
My friend just got back from Morocco. Granted, he had taken a couple stops to France and Spain respectively…that’s his thing. So now we’re out getting his first beers back in the states. Gamed only when I was opened by women. Honestly, me and this guy had a lot to catch up on.
Met the manager of the venue. We talked for a minute. I’m trying to throw a pretty good party before I move in a couple months. Saw a girl and her friend that I had met out early on in the experiment. Before I thought that she was interested in my friend, so I fell back (won’t assume again). We exchanged the usual info and she told me that she’ll make sure to get up with me.
Cool.
Sometimes it’s better to go out by yourself when you’re trying to practice, but I’ve noticed something. If you have a couple of good dudes with you, you can make it work. “Fam, you point a female and I have to approach her. Then I’ll point one out, and you have to do the same thing.” It’ll work if you have some social dudes in your circle.
Fun. Fun. Fun. If you’re over-thinking in the field, stop. That’s not the time. Practice and have fun. That’s it. I’m guilty of it sometimes too. There was a guy at the club with NO game. Kind of chubby, plain clothes (nothing that stood out), and couldn’t dance to save his life ;) Was having a great time though. Tall dude was there as well. Ed Hardy everything on, new shoes, no smile on his face, and stayed posted on the wall almost the whole night. Who pulled more? Who had better results? Exactly. If you’re not having a good time, you’re doing something wrong.
One more thing before I leave you guys though.
It’s getting to be a little after 1am. I’m having a good time. I think that I’m still carrying the social proof from the 2 females from earlier and the manager. One of the tease-types (about a 7, 6.5) we talked about in a previous post starts eyeing me.
She comes over and starts grinding on me…heavy. Whispering in the ear, a kiss on the neck, I don’t usually allow all this to go on (without acting like I have some standards), but what the hell. Now we’re kissing by the wall on the dance floor.
No names have been exchanged yet. Her hand grazes the penis. I put my hand on her thigh. I look at her mouth and she’s got a tongue ring. She’s playing with it while looking me in the eyes. Yeah…she’s going home tonight and he’s going to show me if she really knows how to use that ;)
Her head goes down. I think she’s trying to see what she’s getting later. “You good?” “Yeah, I’m fine.” Five minutes later. “You sure you straight?” She throws up next to me. Some gets on my jeans.
Needless to say, that was the end of my night. I headed straight to the exit.
If it seems too good…it probably is.
Play The Game Fair.
Chris
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