Making an Extreme Point

This will be a real short one….maybe.

So…I talked about the economics of Black men last post. This one is all about proving that point, sticking true to your standards, and getting what you want from your significant other.

You guys should be a little familiar with Mystery and his system. He’s pretty popular. A big pillar of his method deals with pre-selection. It’s all about actively showing and proving (not telling) that other women want you. Tariq Nasheed is also real big in the relationship arena for black men and women. He says that the most powerful chip someone can have in a relationship is options. I believe that. So what do the guys do that don’t have many options? What if you just want to “prove” that point to the woman you’re dating?

One of my guys that I’m real cool with came up with this thing he does with every woman that becomes his “main” chick. I think he said he came by this trick by accident. It’s very possible because he’s just an asshole by nature. So what is it already?

My boy never forces the issue on anything. He also hates arguing. If you won’t do something, he’ll just get someone else to do it. The first time his “main” chick refuses his sexual advances (granted this is after they have already had sex a few times), he goes into the drawer where he keeps his pornos, grabs the lube, goes downstairs, and takes care of the issue. He doesn’t hide it, he doesn’t parade it either, but he makes sure she knows. He doesn’t put the audio on high, but he listens to it like he normally would. After he’s done, he comes back up with the flick, towel, and lube, puts them away, and lays down with her like nothing happened.

I don’t have to tell you that this messes the woman up right?

In every movie where the woman gets too comfortable with the relationship, she tells the sexually frustrated man to go take of his problem and tosses him some lotion. Every time, the guy just sits there mad, pleads, or, in some better movies, goes out and cheats. He actually never does go masturbate. Now you all know I’m against cheating…and this is a similar situation for guys playing the game with only one player on the team.

Why not do it?

By this act alone you “show” the woman that she does not determine your happiness and that, even if she was the only woman that would have sex with you, she does not control when you orgasm. Even without options, you have them. And….for the men that do have a few, it really drives the point home. “If you won’t get me right, I will. Maybe next time, she will.”

That’s a very powerful statement…all without cheating for you committed-folk.

I’ll have to try this one out.

Play The Game Fair.

Chris